Saturday, February 27, 2010

All our ambitionss can come true...if we have the courage to pursue them




Walt Disney once said that "All our dreams can come true...if we have the courage to pursue them."

Well I believe that All our ambitions can come true...if we have the courage to pursue them!

My Ambitions Are :
  • Have a successful blog
  • Finish college by the age of 32
  • Publish a series of book by the age of 40
  • Own my own house by the age of 35
  • Have a happy and healthy family with my future husband

For many years I wonder what is stopping me from pursuing my own. Whether it is lack of determination or confidence, I was pursuing others ambitions. I viewed others advise stronger than my own. I second guessed myself all the time. So now I am on a journey on how I can build my confidence in my own decisions. For a long time, I let others make them. When I did this, I gave myself up to others discretion. Now that I am getting married, I can no longer do this.

Today, I am pursuing the career that I love. I am also taking steps to get the education I always dreamed of. The best thing about this is that it is a decision that I made for myself. I don't know everything in my life that is going to happy but I do know that my decision are now my own. My mistakes are my own too. I have to live with them. I guess it comes with the territory of living. I am taking the steps to become more discipline in all aspects of life.
  • I am stay away from negative people because negativity begets negativity.
  • I stay away from those who wish to control everything in life. Life is meant to be lived not controlled. Setting Up Boundaries. Arm length or a mile away. Either way make sure they are away from you. These folks have more issues that can be solved
  • I am finally leaving those who are self indulgent to themselves. They would want it that way anyway so they can focus on themselves... Lmao!
  • Becoming more independently and planning for the thing that I want in life.
  • I am getting rid of fremenies. Frenemies are just enemies that know your last name. There is no point having them around.
  • I 'm getting healthier thing like exercising, eating better and being stress free. I do miss the cookies and cake but a grapefuit and some almonds will have to do for now on

Focusing on ambitions is my mission. What is yours?

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